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How do you give a ******** to a circumsized penis? I've only ever given a bj to intact men before, and people have been quite complimentary. But I've met someone new and literally have no idea what to do, despite being quite au fait with a regular bj - it feels like there's nothing there to work with! So - do cut men prefer a gentle touch, or are they less sensitive and like firmer? I'm assuming licking whilst essentially giving a hand job isn't as nice - if not, what should be done instead? What do guys mean by suction - isn't that too intense/painful? Not interested in a circ vs uncirc debate - just want to know how to make it feel amazing and not too gentle/rough... | "Nothing to work with"??? This sounds as though your idea of a bj on an uncircumcised penis consisted entirely of giving attention to the foreskin...or that the new guy has no "shaft", just the head and then nothing.
If you read any of many "how-tos", watch any pro/am pornos, etc., which explicitly show this, you will find that the foreskin is an aside. Perhaps the man/men you gave bjs to had mutant foreskins which were huge? The typical foreskin only covers the head, and the lack of it should make it far easier to orally stimulate a penis, not only from the point of view that you won't have to wonder about what's growing/left behind in the foreskin, but the most sensitive part (frenulum; look it up in the wikipedia, etc.) is much more easily accessed from _either_ direction, rather than only when going "down" or when the foreskin is held back.
If you were used to trying to give attention to the penis "head" THROUGH the foreskin, then of course a circumcised one would require less stimulation to get the same effect (assuming that both guys started out similarly sensitive there), because it wouldn't be stimulated through a meat sock. But why do you ask questions as though penises which have been circumcised are somehow fundamentally different from the ones you've already successfully sucked...? You make it sound as though you are jumping species or need some help from an exobiologist or "exoanthropologist" (a contradiction in terms, but it conveys the meaning lol)...that's just really strange and judgmental in an odd way.
If you want the guy to "feel amazing", use your standard bag of tricks, but watch whoever it is to see what works and what doesn't--guys are not all the same, though nearly all like to have their penises orally stimulated. | How to give a ******** without letting my teeth scratch 'it'? Well...last night was my first time trying it.I didn't think I'd like it but it turned out I can't wait to practice more!
The only problem is he's a well endowned guy & my teeth kept getting in the way.How can I avoid this?
And are there any good tips for beginners? Especially if he's a guy who likes rough stuff (likes to dominate).
p.s. I'm 19 so please don't think I'm some pervert or little girl asking questions, thank you :) | | put your lips over your teeth like so your teeth are covered. my ex thought it felt boommbbbb! | Starting out sex...honest sex related quesitons? Thanks for reading. I just started having sex with my girlfriend. We waited a long time to find each and then again for each other so its really nice. We are both not too experienced so we are still trying to find our way...
I have a few questions, if you could answer.
1) With blow_ job, Im very sensitive on the head. ( I have a long foreskin but it rolls back no problem ) I cant take it. It doesnt make me want to ***, just very sensitive when she sucks. Is this normal in the beginnning? I enjoy it when she licks it. But I also feel bad if I ask for it to be done for too long. Is 10 min reasonable to ask? Shes very nice and has no problem, but i cant imagine the girl gets any enjoyament.
2) looking at porn, the porn stars give really rough BJs and hand jobs. Do people do this in real life and is it supposed to be enjoyable? because it is too rough for me and I prefer it when she is very gentle. Is this what happens in real life?
3) finally, do girls get enjoyments from anal? it just looks painful. has anyone tried it? do the girl enjoy it? does it feel better for the guy?
thanks | 1) Yes its normal to be very sensitive, especially if you are not circumcised. After a while you will desensitise a little. For a woman, giving oral can very pleasurable because you are giving pleasure, trust me, its quite a turn-on to hear a man moan.
2) Porn is porn, everything is exaggerated for the visual effect. Its far better to work out what feels good for the two of you.
3) Yes, some do (this is one of them), but you cant just dive in there haha. She needs to be very relaxed, loads of lube and take it very slowly, the woman has to learn to relax her muscles to let you in. Its tighter than the vagina and the taboo factor makes it more pleasureable for many.
Learn what pleases your girlfriend, let her show you, and you do the same for her. Everyone is different, even people who have had plenty of sexual partners always have to learn with a new partner. | Did i really cause this? Ok i know its dumb and immature to come to the "THE INTERNET" for this kind of situation and though im 22 i should be a little more less guyish.....but i have NO ONE to talk to or listen to me at all....so please hear me out for a sec.....ok i was been dating my first boyfriend since 2005! and i swear he was the one for me because he was nothing but faithful,loving and honest....but he just grew dominative more and more which was making him watch over me all the time!! so after 4 years of being together we had a HUGE argument about how i wanted him to stop being so possesive over me and accussing me of sleeping with alot of other guys when he knew he was my first love and only...then after about half hour of screaming at eachother he all of sudden hit me and left me......he never talked,called me for 2 weeks....then just a week ago i get these "MMS" video clips sent from his phone out my sleep of this blonde girl giving him really nasty blow jobs and having sex with him really rough andhearing him say that he loves her and how much better at sex she was.......I was soooo mortified!!!!! and hurt! i have never wanted to die before but that night i really did wanna slit my throat from mysery!!........so anyways im at work break 3 days later and he walks up to me saying sorry and it wasnt meant to be that bad and all i could do was ask why and his answer was "it was all your fault leana, you brought on yourself, you should have listened to me and you would have never been humiliated or hurt" and he left saying sorry again.....was he right?? am i not a good person?? do i seem like bad girlfriend?? what do i do???. | | Run as fast as you can from this guy. He has hit you, degraded you, blamed you for his behavior which was appalling, and still thinks he has the right to tell you what to think and do. He is a dangerous person and should be cut out of your life completely. He is a classic misogynist - he hates women and needs to control them. He will ultimately hurt someone physically to the worst possible degree. He will very likely end up behind bars unless he gets some serious counseling about his attitude towards females - and let me tell you from experience - he will never accept this. Everything he thinks says or does will always be blamed on the female in his life. Run while you can and, to answer your original question...NO you did not cause this. He has serious problems you cannot fix. | I'm a lesbian, but I'd rather watch str8 porn? OK, I'm trying to figure this out. I LOVE women, I always have. I tried the whole dating a guy thing and it did nothing for me. I don't like to watch girl n girl porn, it does nothing for me. I don't know if b/c it seems so fake to me or what. BUT I will watch and like str8 porn, not just any str8 porn. It's gotta be at least 2 blacks guys and a white girl. mostly blow jobs, a little penetration, and they've gotta be kinda rough with her. I've looked in to it a lot, which is why I can give you what the exacts are that I look for in a porn, but I cannot figure out why I like str8 porn and not lesbian. Any ideas?? | You like what you like. Don't worry about it-what we fantasize/get off to can be a complete 180 from what gets us off in real life. My 1st gf could get off on straight/gay/lesbian porn. Anything except for scat, bestiality, & crazy BDSM.
And she was DEFINITELY lesbian. Taught me a lot. | Is it intuition or Insecurity? (I apologize for the length).? Okay, so lately my relationship with my girlfriend has been quite rocky. In July, I lost my job. In August, a VERY close friend of hers made out with her at work. She finally told me about it after she gave in to guilt. The next week, she asked me to go to the movies. She then called me about 20 minutes later, before i was able to get into the movies, and asked me to come home. She smelled of cologne. I became suspicious. After a week of bugging her, she admitted that it was The guy that kissed her. She said that she invited him over to talk about what had happened and to tell him that she was happy with me. She smelled SO strongly of cologne that I find this hard to believe, seeing as though she sits so close to him at work, gets hugs (of which she tells me of openly) from him, and never smells of cologne when she gets home. The minute she told me, I got upset. She then hugged me and told me to not say about it, that nothing happened.
Ever since then, things have gone down hill. I have had these nightmares about it. I feel so deeply that they had sex, that it literally makes me sick to m stomach. Earlier this week, before I finally found a new job, I found an AIM im between This guy and her. He was saying things like "you should be right here with me, giving me a ********", to which she replied " I'd love to be, because I love giving blow jobs." She hates giving me oral. He was constantly suggesting things to her, and she always agreed and went along willingly. It got to a point where he said "You're such a slut". She replied with "Guilty as charged". They exchanged more sex jibberish, until they reached the point where I could hardly stand to read any further. This is exactly what was exchanged at this point:
The guy--- "You're the one who jumped at the chance to **** me and cheat on your boyfriend."
Her--- "You're the one who instigated it"
Notice she never denied his statement.
When I showed it to her and told her of it, she was enraged. She told me that I shouldn't have been snooping around. (she had left this IM open). I asked her if she would rather I stay blissfully ignorant of the fact that she was exchanging such crude statements with her co-worker of whom she "finds odd looking and wimpy" and has "no feelings for". She said that she would rather I not know of her talking to her close friend this way. During the argument, she told me that she and this guy talk to each other that way as a release. She said that she is stressed because I have no job (I do now) and He is stressed because his marriage is horrible (He has cheated on his Wife FIVE times, complaining that she is controlling.). After that, I replied with "What gives you the right to go to someone else behind my back because you're stressed? She became more enraged at this. After my statement, there was a moment of silence followed by a deafening roar, so to speak. She said, "Maybe I SHOULD cheat on you because you're so pathetic and can't find a job!". It continued for quite sometime....
Mind you, I asked her a few weeks prior if she had ever had a friend that had been as close as this guy without passing the "just friends barrier". She said no. She gets angry every time I tell her that I can't trust her anymore. I have been trying to make myself more like this guy, hoping that maybe she'll focus more on me. I have been giving her more rough sex, because she likes that, and I have been more assertive outside the bedroom. Also, I have tried to pass myself off as more horny more often just to be like him. She tells me that she doesn't want anything to change about me, that she loves me the way I am. I have read many of the signs of cheating. She follows none of those. The only thing I have are the two instances of sexual contact between them, both physical (with the kiss at work), and verbal (with the IM). This had me worried. I don't want to be the jealous jerk. I feel like, by probing more into her private life (which I want to do oh so badly), that I am becoming that guy.
The simple question lies therein.... Is everything I am experiencing, including my fears, intuition, or insecurities? Should I believe everything she is saying? Does this sound like she is developing feelings for this guy?
P.S.: We are about to move 15 hours away from our current location if she gets this new job. I am not worried about her getting anything long term with guy. I just want to know if she has been cheating. If she has, then she will do it when we move. I want to know before i move with her. This is understandable right? | | I think she has cheated on you. Once a cheater, always a cheater, regardless of where you live! | What should my target rent payment be with my income? I make 40k a year and am moving out on my own for the first time to relocate for a job around Huntsville, AL. I'll be living in an apartment & I'm curious what a reasonable amount I should be spending is. I have no car payment and don't blow a lot of money, but I'd like to be able to put back each month for emergencies and/or a down payment for a house in the distant future.
If someone could give me a rough idea, thanks!! | | I would say your monthly rent payment should be no more than 4% of your annual salary. At 40K a year, that would be $1000. | Horny or Just Plain Sick?? ok so my bf is like always horny ! he always tryin to get me to give him hand and blow jobs in just the worst possible places.always smackin my butt and grabbin my boobs in frint of a parents .He even tried to touch me in front of my parents!!!!!! and we were watchin his lil sis and we were watchin a movie and he literally started to take his clothes and stuff off under the covers and asked me to so we could have sex wit his lil sis sittin right across the room !!!!!and when we do have sex he is so rough and pulls my hair so hard he gives me headaches afterward and he always tryin to have sex on his parents bed wat i want to kno is this normal for a guy and wat u think about the whole thing??? | | Well, I think his manners and horniness-timing could use a lot of work for one thing. I think it's normal for a guy to want to get hand jobs and whatnot, but with an audience? He sounds like one of those guys who would videotape their girlfriend having sex with them and post it on YouTube. | Need advice? making out & bjs? So yesterday I hooked up with a guy & he told me ehh he doesn't think he will hook up with me again so I asked him why cause it was kinda like wow okay then. He basically told me two things.
1) My bj was not bad but it kinda hurt. (now I'm really paranoid about how I give bad ones)
2) That making out with me he felt like he was suffocating (but we barely used tongue)
So I got curious & asked the other boys that I have made out with if I was a bad kisser & they told me I was rough. Now I'm like crapp. I don't wanna be bad. I think what happens is I get too aggressive & it makes it sloppy should i slow down & take my time making out? haha. Also, blow jobs how do you hurt someone other than biting it (which I didn't do)
Advice?
thank you btw please don;t JUDGE me for friends with benefits bj. | | to much teeth... like when you go up and down your teeth sometimes rubs against it | What's up with girls and their first kiss ?why is it such a big deal? ok i'm 14 and i have kissed girls with tongue and stuff and did some other things i can't say
and i'm a boy
as i've seen for us boys having our first kiss and other sexual experiences like blow jobs fingerings and sex are things we can't wait to happen
as i've seen with girls they are more insecure about all that stuff
i saw yesterday my brother watching something on nickelodeon about a girl with red hair who was about to have her first kiss and she made a big deal out of it and in the end she broke her friend's leg and didn't have the kiss
also that happened with my last girlfriend
she had never kissed before and i tried to be gentle with her but she didn't want to
then i was more persuasive and after 1 week i didn't even got her to go out with me so i dumped her
shame cause she was beautiful but very unexperienced
i always thought that girls were insecure about those things because for example in sex a girl can't f*** the guy but she is the on being f***ed(sorry i sounded kinda rough here) if i was a girl i would be insecure about sex but not for a kiss
so what's the big deal with the first kiss? | | you might think it's no big deal because you're gay. and she shoots cujo... |
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