I just found out my dad is having an affair. Would it be bad if i beat the sluts ***? My mom received an anonymous letter stating my father was cheating. When she brought this up to him he lied and said it was a lie from some jealous person. 3 days later my brother and i got the same letter, we don't know who it is from but it stated my father has been seeing someone for 4 years now. I am very upset now because my parents have been together 23 years. I have always looked up to my father and been very close to him. I feel so disgusted with him at this point i refuse to answer his calls. My mom got receipts from restaurants he had taken her to, and flowers with notes he sent her. It is taking every piece of strength within in me not to beat this sluts *** for disrespecting my mother. My mom has a taped conversation of theirs where she is calling her all kinds of names. I am thinking about effing up her car or causing her some kind harm just like she has hurt my family. What should i do? Should i cut my dad off? I'm so hurt and confused! |
| You should ( in my opinion ) do nothing physical as this would only get you in trouble . If you and your dad are close , take the letter you received to him and maybe even the tape if you can get it and tell your father to come clean . Explain to him that your respect for him and his disrespecting the entire family is killing you inside . Ask him to stop and to make a promise to you to stop for good . If he refuses , then go to your mom with your brother and tell her it is time to move on . |
STUPID *** SLUTS!!!! lol? ive been dating this guy for 2 years, i went to school today and i was happy just another day. third hour came which is anatomy. everything was going good. then my friend brittany told me that katie (which is a slut) made ouyt with my boyfriend this weekend. so of course i got pissed. when the bell rang for third hout to be over i left the room and seen kaie in the hallway and punched her in the face 5 times. what would you have done. oh i woud of done more but the teachers pulled me away lol this was my first fight and all the teachers were very surprised lol |
| I understand your reaction, but that that katie is a ... as you call it, that doesn't justify your boyfriend, there are 2 people required for a kiss.. to put it like that, so I would question your boyfriend as well |
HE LIKES THE "NORMAL" GIRLS BUT WHY DOES HE ALWAYS GOES OUT WITH SLUTS?(NEED ANSWERS ASAP PLEASE BY TOMORROW)? my guy friend is really sweet and caring and he once liked my Friend who's NOT A SLUT but then he went out with her cousin WHO'S A BIG SLUT 2 summers ago but broke up after a week and then last year at the starting of the school year, i met him and we were friends with crushes for each other then this year in grade 10, he met a really big *** slut who now he likes but he also still likes me
SO WHY DOES HE ALWAYS GO OUT WITH THE SLUTS AND NOT THE "NORMAL" GIRLS? |
you need to dress more attractive around him. he must of put you in the friend zone. i know of this zone bec i just asnwered a question about it 2 questions ago.
no sweat pants, no big shirts.
if its tight then you wear it
but only take my advice if your want his heart and his body. if not keep doing what your doing. |
Why would a guy continue to treat you like a piece of *** when you don't present yourself like a slut? I know that the guy has issues but I would like some advice bc I he has never stopped making me feel like he treats me like a booty call when I have never been his booty call. And this has been going on for a long time. Why? |
He treats you like this, because its been going on for a long time. Still doesn't make sense? Let me explain. He did this a long time ago, and because you didn't tell him off, or dump him, for doing it, you have enabled him to continue negative behaviors. He has no respect for you. Because you have allowed this, you have given him reason to respect you even less than he did before.
In behavior modification theory, they talk about manifest and latent behaviors. Manifest, is when you actively do a behavior. Latent is when you passively allow something or do not act, but your lack of actions or allowing motivates behavior.
Communication is both verbal and non-verbal. 80% of all communication is actually non-verbal. By staying with him, you have non-verbally communicated with him, that you approve of this negative behavior and have enabled him to continue. Staying with him, is a latent behavior, because it is a lack of action or even allowing him to continue to treat you like this. You have reinforced negative behavior.
Oh sure, you may have said, don't call me that, but your actions did not support what you were saying, so he tuned-you-out and ignored your verbal communication and paid attention to your non-verbals. Certainly its hard to respect someone, who doesn't respect themselves. He already had issues with women. Because of these issues, he choose to not have respect for you initially. You could have earned his respect, but instead, you reinforced this lack of respect, and now he has even less respect for you.
So, what can do you do. Well, for one, you can dump him. He doesn't respect you, and he never will. If you finally stand-up for yourself, you're problem will be solved, and he may at least get the negative reaction he needs to change in the future. Maybe, if some woman stands-up for herself, he'll treat the next girlfriend with more respect. He needs some negative reinforcement, for his negative behavior.
As for yourself, stay single for awhile, work on your self-esteem and then pursue a guy who actually shows you respect. If you ever meet another guy like him, put your foot down and stand-up for yourself, or this will happen all over again. Don't rebound into another relationship. If you do that, you're likely to find another guy who doesn't respect you either. Stay single till you have recovered and have self-love, self-respect, self-esteem, self-confidence and a healthy outlook on life.
If you had acted different earlier, maybe he could have changed, but now, there is no way he'll change with you. The most you can hope for, is that he'll treat the next woman a little better. Really, that would actually be a good thing. Consider it your contribution to the world, by improving his attitude.
Best of luck in life and love. :-) |
Why do the majority of girls dress like sluts? I mean, cmon now..If you're tuggin' at your shorts, they're probably WAAAYY to small. And there's no reason to wear skin tight shorts, with *** hangin out. I don't want ANY little guys to see that. But apparently, none of you whores care if little girls turn into lesbians because of you. Shameless losers. |
Why, It's because of their low morals and the way they dress those days
are like the sisters of sodom andGomorrahh( babylon) times!Damnn
and i know you feel the crunch those days!.Girls should show modesty,
Feminitey,poise when going to girls/Boys dance those days. |
Am i a slut if i like it rough and banged up the *** by 3 guys in the same day? because i did that yesterday . Don't binge drink on tequila . |
| naw we all have our days. |
Why do a lot of girls dance like sluts? I dont get it. It seems demeaning and stupid to me. Some of my girlfriends who do it are not the slutty type at all, but as soon as some corny hip hop song comes on then their *** is all over the place. |
They just imitate what they see on tv and the media.
Blame MTV and Mr Redstone. |
Is it normal to feel slutty after that the guy i like touched my ***? So we had a dance at school and i was dancing with the guy i like and he said that a friend of ours gave him a dare to touch my *** so we asked my if he could and i said that i didn't care so he touched me.My heart was going sooo fast but after that i felt like a slut and i started crying.IS IT NORMAL OR IM A REAL SLUT? |
No. You're not. It's really normal. I think you have to go all the way with more than one guy before you can even be considered close to a slut.
I think it's because of the dare involved that you feel that way. You don't feel like the contact was based off of real emotion, instead just gain, so you're not happy with yourself for going along with it. Hence the feeling of sluttiness.
If I'm totally wrong, feel free to tell me off or something. I just wanna help. |
Whore ***** *** slut can you please help me idk wat to do? my parents are pastors and there job moved them to a different city. and we hav to go to church in one town and live in another. we hav been here for like 2 months and i am so shy at my old school i was the most outgoing person ever becasue every1 knew me and i had amazing friends, but i hav anxiety problems nd it is hard for me to make friends fast, so i am having some problems. and i keep living in the past through daydreams and memories, and thats not healthy. especially since we moved i hav been obsessin over this guy where i used to live who i barely knew nd didnt hav a chance wit he just seems so perfect. i am having such a hard time i cant let ppl c the real me im shy and i am literally obsessing over this guy that i definately will never c again and it doesnt help that all my old friends moved on nd its like they forgot i even exsisted it sucks i feel like im the only person in the whole world. please give me any advice i cant take this any longer |
| Be patient, work on yourself and find other things to keep you occupied, all things in time. |
I think my mum was a crazy *** slut when she was little? Ur opinions please!!? Seriously my mum makes up the most crazy scenarios about how dangerous everything is and omg boys r u talking to boys and that crap! And when i 12 years old she barely let me go to camp and she tagged along and she said going to camp was so dangerous because girls hang condoms on the toilet doors, at 12 years old who does that? Is it just me or do you think she probably slept around a lot when she was little? She always goes on about how pretty she was, she's so ugly lol, and that all the boys wanted her. Tell me what you think |
well your mother is right up to a point. I have to say that some of the stuff you says she invents is pretty far out there !!!
and untrue.
your mother was probably not a slut but a prude and was fearfull of men when she was young. or maybe she was raped. she sounds like she has a mental issue.
sorry. |